Many people might claim that if you love someone, you’ll always make things work. That’s partly true, especially if you were in a long-term relationship. Yet, love is not the only element that makes a relationship work. If the situation is suffocating you and your partner isn’t participating to make it work, you can consider ending the relationship. You’ll have that gut or “fed up” feeling when you decide to part ways....
For those of you who are catching up with this series here, my wife Shweta and I are a working couple. We embarked on a new adventure with a close friend couple by going on a weekend vacation to Ooty with them, where we swapped partners for the night. However, we felt guilty and we realised swapping is easier with strangers than with known people. We met a couple who gave us new insights into how couples are using swinging to bring never-ending adventure and spice into their lives....
If the phrase “opposites attract” was in the dictionary, empaths and narcissists would be the definition. They are like fire and water, but the two personalities have always been wildly attracted to one another. Unfortunately, empaths usually end up with the short end of the stick, because narcissists have an ulterior motive for dating empaths. One of the main traits of narcissistic personality disorder is they have a lack of empathy....
Jealousy is virtually unavoidable in a relationship, you can feel it from the very first moment you set eyes on your partner. You want them all to yourself and you’re desperately afraid that someone else will come along and steal their affection. It doesn’t go away either, you can feel jealous years into a relationship, even after you’re married. So why do men get jealous when they’re in a relationship?...
Recently, you’ve noticed a change in your girlfriend’s behavior. As far as you’re aware, you haven’t done anything wrong, so you’re wondering, why is my girlfriend so mean to me for no reason? It could be because she’s got mental health issues, met someone else, or doesn’t know how to express her emotions. Either way, you need to get to the bottom of this because it’s no fun being in a relationship with someone who treats you like crap!...
(As told to Anish A R) After a few weeks of dating Rahul, I invited Himanshu to come and meet him. Himanshu, my ex, had decided to move on with his life. For some odd reasons, I felt the need to make him realize what he was missing out on. But why? These are the reasons we try to make our ex feel jealous Deriving pleasure out of his/her misery When Himanshu met my new boyfriend, I could see it in Himanshu’s eyes that he was jealous....
Do not be deceived by their demure demeanours. Once comfortable in your presence, they can blossom into the coolest friends and the most amazing romantic partners. I guarantee you will end up saying, “He’s a nerd, but I like him”. Curious about what it feels like dating a geeky guy? Here are a few things you should know before you step into their world of magic. 11 Things To Know When Dating A Nerd The 80’s and 90’s media stereotyped geeks as men and women with pasty-looking skin, thick black glasses and braces....
How indeed? How do you let go of someone you love who can’t be with you? Well, gather your strength and what heart you have left, and read on. We talked to counselors Prerna Dhingra (M.A. Clinical Psychology) and Shazia Saleem (Masters in Psychology), who specializes in separation and divorce counseling, about this. And we’re here to help you pick up the pieces and heal your heart. How To Get Over A Broken Heart When You Still Love Him — 11 Ways Detaching from someone you love deeply is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do....
Every year of marriage must be celebrated because living with someone is not only difficult but also tiresome at times. But what makes it worth all the trials and tribulations, is the pure act of giving and receiving love. It’s true what they say – love wins! And to commemorate this love, it brings us so much joy to share this list of 10th wedding anniversary gifts for couples because that’s what we do....
And you have to keep yourself in check if you are being too easy since you’re told that men will lose their interest if you aren’t a challenge or a bit of a hassle to reach. That doesn’t have to be the ultimate truth, and it isn’t, to be frankly honest. However, right now, you find yourself doing all the texting, planning, and effort. Things don’t seem the same on his end though!...
He is extremely well-mannered, has the confidence that comes from having proved himself (he probably has a good job or is a successful businessman), and has eyes only for you but in an almost innocent manner. You can instantly read the signs a married man is attracted to you. We, women, love attention since it becomes so scarce to come by from our husbands. Once you are married, your partner just doesn’t seem so crazy about you anymore....
Relationships require work and consistent effort to survive and thrive. Only when both partners do their bit to strengthen their bond can they cultivate a relationship that can stand the test of time. To become a better girlfriend, you need to focus on doing your part without thinking about what you’re getting in return or out of the relationship. Now, this doesn’t mean putting up with abusive or toxic relationships or sticking with a partner who doesn’t value what you bring to the table....
So you need to know when she is ready to be kissed to avoid messing things up. But the million-dollar question remains: how to know if a girl wants to kiss you? One way, of course, is to ask her up front. However, a straight-forward approach may not necessarily pan out favorably. What if you end up making things awkward? What if she’s not quite ready to take the leap but doesn’t know how to say so?...
First things first, though – we’re not going to paint you any rosy pictures; yes, it’s going to be a tough ride, especially if you have to get over someone who has moved on already. But no matter how rocky the terrain, we’re determined to get you back on your feet. The dumps are not a good place to dwell in and you’ve been down there long enough. We are here to help you understand the psychology of breakups with the help of counselor Ridhi Golechha (Masters in Psychology), who specializes in counseling for loveless marriages, breakups, and other relationship issues....
It’s not wrong to let things loose and not stress about anything. But it gets difficult when you’re in a relationship and there’s no support from the other party. The support can be of any kind —financial, intellectual, or emotional. They don’t lend a hand in household chores, they don’t pay heed to your sexual needs, and they aren’t equipped to handle conflicts. This is when you are left feeling that you are dating an immature person....
If you’re expecting a bunch of black magic tricks or coordinates to Cupid’s arrows, you should click away right about now. But if you’re here to do all you can to try and win this person over, you’ve come to the right place. Is there a way to make someone fall in love with you without getting the voodoo books out? We’re not sure what your definition of ‘love’ is, but we sure can help you put your best foot forward....
A man can pretend and hide his feelings due to uncertainty and because of his ego. Either way, when he is hiding his feelings for you something will seem off. Even though he will try to pretend that he isn’t feeling anything special, at some point his actions will prove the contrary. Love life is such a chess game of feelings and emotions. Therefore, confusion is part of it, hence it exists a fine line between pretending not to like you and not liking you....
Do you keep thinking about how complicated the situation is and wish your love was more simple and brought you happiness and joy? Then let us try to understand why she is leading you on and why the relationship is going nowhere despite your efforts. And no, you are probably not misreading the signals she is giving you; she is simply toying with your heart. Leading someone on in a relationship is rather common and it is sometimes done unintentionally....
Don’t you think there’s a loophole in the old saying ‘look good, feel good’? You may look ravishing in a tank top and slim-fit low waist jeans and yet feel super uncomfortable if that’s not your personal style. Coffee dates, especially if it’s the first date, write the prologue of a relationship as it’s all about first impressions. The way you dress, the way you talk and walk, what you order – everything leaves an impact on the person sitting on the opposite side of the table....
But defining respect in a relationship isn’t always straightforward. What does it mean to respect one’s partner? How do you know that you do? And more importantly, how do you show it? In a partnership of equals, respect doesn’t exactly fit the realm of reverence. Nor can it be unwavering, unquestioning obedience. So then, what is it exactly? When it comes to love, things can often appear to be more complicated than they actually are....
