It’s easy enough to say face your fears. But fear in relationships can come from long-standing and long-buried insecurities and childhood trauma which aren’t quite so simple to stand up to and overcome. It is important, however, to acknowledge that these fears are common and that you’re not alone in feeling them. The list of fears in a relationship can be long but subtle, manifesting in varied ways across your relationship....
It depends on the person. How he or she will take the breakup and react to it. A dumper might go from being content with their decision to feeling anxious. They will feel lonely, be mad, question their decision, not know what they want, and learn to cope with reality. When does the breakup hit the dumper? Some might realize that they want you back the moment they have zero contact with you for a certain period....
Related reading: I’m emotionally drained because my wife uses our private arguments to criticise me in public How to deal with public criticism from your partner Get preventive and draw boundaries. You and your partner should sit down and have open communication and come to an understanding that you will not criticise each other in public. Not only the person who criticises, but also the other should be part of the pact....
But imagine a man like your most boring bra. All security, all comfort but so boring that you want to slip into the next lacy hot pink push-up number that you see in the window of a lingerie shop. Fun, but a recipe for disaster. On the other extreme are those nipple pasties that come in a pack of 5 for those completely braless days. (Why 5? Some maths definitely wrong there....
It might not help you troubleshoot 100% but you will certainly not be taken aback when life throws you those curveballs. This comprehensive guide will give you a general overview of how a relationship progresses initially. While each relationship is unique and incomparable with others, there are a few striking similarities for sure. That being said, you shouldn’t panic if you don’t fully resonate with what’s written here. These different stages of a new relationship reflect the most frequent trajectory, not the only one....
Then she came up with this clincher: “I would tell young girls never to ape the style statements shown in Hindi cinema. On the screen, heroines walk around in shorts but in real life, they should never wear that. Socially and culturally India is not ready to accept women walking around in shorts although in Hindi cinema we show that as a cakewalk.” Year 2020: I had taken a cycle rickshaw through a thronging bazaar....
Still confused, and wondering, what does demisexual mean? Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. We’re here to help you in your endeavor to understand the demisexual traits, backed by expert insights from sexologist Dr. Rajan Bhonsle (MD, MBBS Medicine and Surgery), who specializes in pre-marital counseling and has over three decades of experience as a sex therapist. Let’s dive into everything you need to know about this sexual orientation and ways to figure out if you identify as one....
A divorce can leave you emotionally battered, we know. Whether it was the prolonged legal fight or the arguments at home or even the battles inside your own head — life right after the divorce feels rather exhausting and empty. Just the thought of investing so much time and energy in a new relationship can feel like you are being asked to move mountains. Putting yourself out there might take more work than it used to earlier....
We love too much and respect too little Love and relationships and related issues have always intrigued Raksha, and she is always looking for answers. As a part of her research, she has interviewed many across the Indian subcontinent and abroad to discuss issues the urban Indian population face in their relationships. She met Dr Kushal Jain, a clinical psychiatrist and he narrated to her several instances were couples (married or otherwise) approached him for consultation....
Know your number To know your number, you will have to add the numbers of your date of birth, until you reach a single digit. For example, if your date of birth is 24th January 2001, to find your number add 2+4+0+1+2+0+0+1=10=>1+0=1 Here is what the numbers indicate. 1. The raging bull You like to take charge of life as well as in your bedroom. You are the master and you go after what you want....
Despite its good sides, online dating has its undeniable bad sides too. Cheating statistics prove those negative sides quite clearly. I think it has more bad sides if you’re not vigilant and genuine when using them[dating apps/sites]. Since dating through dating apps is super easy to access for everyone using them, they make comfortable room for infidelity too. It is because it has a lot of potential for it to go unnoticed, and it’s a lot easier than the other ways of doing it[infidelity]....
As a counselor, I have observed that during such phases of marriage, when the connection with spouse or boyfriend is at its lowest, you are most likely to be vulnerable and get attracted to another ‘potential mate’. It is quite common to be married and have a crush if your needs are not being met in your marriage. This can happen if you have an inattentive spouse or if you happen to be a die-hard romantic and fall easily in love with people....
Having sex is no more about just dropping your pants whenever you feel like it. In a joint family, a lot of other things have to be factored in before you can finally orgasm. Read on more to understand what it’s like. Don’t get me wrong, it can be quite the thrill once you figure it out. Having Sex In A Joint Family So, you think, yes it’s difficult to have sex in a joint family, no points for guessing that....
You’re in for a ride, and here’s a fair warning – it might get a teensy bit uncomfortable. For today’s reality check (because that’s what it is!) I have Nandita Rambhia (MSc, Applied Psychology) with me. With an experience of over a decade in psychotherapy, Nandita has a few sparkling observations to make and some priceless guidance to give. Let’s dive deep into the world of relationships and navigate the two ends of the spectrum on which they exist....
When it comes to divorce, even seemingly progressive individuals suddenly cower with a terrified gaze, pleading with the woman to consider any option but divorce. Granted, life after divorce for women is no walk in the park, but the stigma around it makes it a lot worse. Let’s take a look at what divorced women in India go through, and how they navigate the damaging notions attached to a divorcee that Indian society needs to shake off collectively....
If your parents do not like your partner, it can cause a lot of stress for you. You’re filled with constant thoughts about what your life will look like if they get you married off to somebody else. While we all want our parents’ blessings, at times, their unwillingness can be greatly upsetting and disappointing. In such a case, you are at a crossroads. On one hand, you do not want to hurt and disappoint the wonderful people who raised you....
If indifference to fellow human beings is inhumane, it’s unthinkable what someone goes through when they feel ignored in a relationship. The psychological effects of being ignored by someone you love can only be soul-searing and mentally torturous. When a loved one doesn’t give us the attention we deserve, our first instinct is to get to the root of the problem and weed it out. However, in doing so, another vital question goes unaddressed: how to deal with being ignored by someone you love?...
Finding love while traveling is probably the most romantic thing out there, but it’s also equally elusive. When was the last time you managed to find the courage to talk to strangers on a vacation (apart from that time you got too drunk to remember any of it)? To make sure you try your hand at this elusive-yet-alluring romantic premise, let’s take a look at just what you need to do to maximize your chances of finding your very own Enrique, the Portuguese musician who serenaded his way into your heart whilst in Jamaica....
Flirting is easy… until it isn’t. Until it goes too wrong, too awkward, or too awful. But hey! Flirting is easy! There’s a lot of exchanging, attention, tension, the chemistry involved. To understand how you flirt with a guy in person or flirt through text (which by the way you can tell if he likes you through text too), you should understand some basics first. You know the basics of not overdoing....
In the last few years, social media has transformed the way we communicate, and it helps us stay connected. Yes, it’s true that it has become a part of our daily lives and some can’t spend a day without it. Most of us here are always sharing snippets of what goes on during the day to our friends, but there are times we receive unwanted texts. There is a way out of this and there are several ways for you to tell someone to stop contacting you....
