Dear Doctor, I am a 30-year-old healthy woman. My concern is that as a child I learnt to satisfy myself by pressing/rubbing my clitoris against the corner of tables/desks, etc., a habit which continued right up till adulthood. Now my concern is since my clitoris has been pushed inside to quite a great extent, is there a way to reverse the damage? If yes, how expensive would be the procedure?...
Dear Mallika, I have an unhappy married life since 2004. I have a 13-year-old daughter. Within one year of my marriage, my husband restarted his relationship with his ex and continued it. I get ignored. He doesn’t even look at me. I compromised for my kid. At my parents’ house, I have always had a second place. Despite knowing all about my married life, my mother doesn’t encourage me to came back home....
Ma’am, I am 32 years old, my husband is 37. I was working in an MNC. When my husband got an onsite opportunity for 6 years he asked me to come along. I left my job and went with him. Then I applied for a visa, but because of something my husband did wrong, I didn’t get a visa and returned to India. Previously my mother-in-law used to be very dominating and always interfered in our personal matters, even though she is a doctor and a highly educated lady....
But I didn’t know then a bigger shock was awaiting me. One night I got late at work and took a train at 11 pm. When the train stopped and the doors opened the compartment I stepped into was empty except for around six couples, all of whom were kissing. Yes, all were engrossed in PDA. My Indian eyes didn’t know which way to look so I looked down at my mobile and completed the ride....
It’s no surprise that women are barraged with at least a million matches and messages very quickly after they sign up on a dating app. Guys, on the other hand, may often struggle to find even a handful of matches, and out of those too, some might turn out to be scam accounts. Is online dating for women really easier? We asked around and came to our own conclusion on the topic....
Many struggle to find and keep girlfriends who are committed to them. This is especially true for someone new to dating, hooking up, and the world of relationships. It can be hard to know when a girl likes you or is just using you as a friend with benefits. We’re here to help you figure this out. How Do You Know If A Girl Is Using You? The art of dating is one that many people struggle with, whether it’s because they are shy or because the other person is not what they seem at first glance....
Like there are two sides to any coin, staying with the in-laws after marriage too has its own set of privileges and downsides. There are a lot of evident and obvious advantages, and life does get a tad bit easy, in terms of living with the in-laws to save money, among many other things. I’m not saying that all in-laws are monster-in-laws and that it’s impossible to have a peaceful relationship with them....
While that may be a little over-dramatic, Indians view romantic love as the “black sheep” of emotions. It is often misunderstood, hesitantly talked about, and in most households, discarded altogether. Cohabitation in India or living together is always subject to a lot of judgment unless a couple is married. India is a land of diverse opinions and cultures. Living together without marriage draws the attention of many in society. It is labeled unnecessary and even sinful in certain contexts....
On hearing this, I went to check on her. “Had you been home nothing would have happened to her. Now look at her,” said my father-in-law. My mother-in-law didn’t look at me as I spoke to her. I immediately got the feeling that something was being schemed against me. Even Devan seemed upset with me. He told me that Ma was old and she needed attention full time; therefore, Papa had decided that I quit my job and stay at home to look after her....
Have you ever been asked whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert and your response was it depends? Do you feel like your mood plays a huge role in your behavior? Do you often shift from extreme extroversion to extreme introversion? If you answered yes to these questions, you might be an omnivert. Now, the question is: what is an omnivert? Ambivert vs. Omnivert: What Are the Differences? The main difference between ambiverts and omniverts is this: Also, ambivert is a more widely recognized and accepted term in psychology....
Click here to read: In the dark pantry, our office romance met a horrible fate. I met her again, about two years after she moved. She came down to India for Diwali, and we caught up one afternoon. She was an entirely different woman. Her accent was now American, her dress sense had changed drastically from modest to eye-catching, and her body language changed from conscious to supremely confident. And I came to know she was into one-night stands....
However, the importance of personal space in relationships isn’t up for debate. A bit of freedom, or rather ‘me time’, within your relationships is what keeps it interesting and ever-changing. Despite how in love you might be, there will come a time when you’d want to spend at least a day away from your partner. With a few examples of modern-day relationships, let’s take a look at how important it is to give space in a relationship....
Relationships almost always start on a dreamy note. But once the initial spark wears off, reality makes a grand entrance with a bag full of responsibilities. To be able to shoulder their weight, you need to become responsible in a relationship. You will be able to discover the truest and most authentic version of your partner only when you show up for them, take full accountability for your actions and become a source of their strength....
Spouses sharing housework equally shows that there is a certain amount of respect in the relationship. In the absence of a detailed arrangement that both sides honor, the equation can become lop-sided. For instance, if the husband brushes off his household responsibilities, it falls upon the woman to balance her career and commitments at home. Husbands should be equally involved in what goes on at home, it’s honestly the bare minimum....
The subtext that lies behind this simple message has the whole power to this situation. Whereas, whether you should text your ex a happy birthday or not depends on the terms you left on. The situation will be less complicated if you know beforehand the reason why you want to wish your ex a happy birthday. Don’t wish them a happy birthday out of the blue. If you haven’t been talking with your ex for some time, wishing them a happy birthday would stir up your past....
Just like in the series, there is nothing more hazardous than abuse going unnoticed in a relationship. Nine times out of ten, emotional abuse gets out of hand before it is identified and stopped. Chances are, even if you can’t put a finger on a partner’s emotionally manipulative and abusive ways, you’ve got an inkling that something is amiss. Perhaps, it has got you wondering, “Am I being gaslighted by my partner?...
— Fifty Shades Freed (@FiftyShades) November 6, 2017 Fifty Shades of Grey has become a cult in the genre of sex and erotica. And while we wait impatiently for the next Valentine’s day, why not gear up for the bedroom prep by revisiting ten intense and sexy scenes from the Fifty Shades trilogy? Who doesn’t remember the uncanny elevator scene? Here’s to undressing like a pro. A kiss on the neck is a major turn on...
According to a study, physical appearance is the main factor in determining the level of attraction in a possible romantic relationship. It includes hairstyle, dressing sense, and implied financial status as well. To find out about the different types of attraction in psychology, we reached out to Nandita Rambhia, who specializes in compatibility issues, parenting issues, and extreme marital affair counseling. She says, “There are many types of attraction other than what just meets the eye....
In families with one or more narcissistic members, the dynamics are inherently dysfunctional. Children often grow up feeling confused, insecure, and afraid. They may not know who to trust, and they usually blame themselves for the problems occurring at home. Many times, a narcissist will use scapegoats to project their anger. Family Scapegoats allow them to displace all the blame onto something else. Rather than own personal accountability over their actions, the narcissist can continue to live how they normally live without any real consequences....
Of late, the buzz about solo travel for women has been doing the rounds in women’s groups. The women that went, go or plan for one call it a matter of self-love, as opposed to, they say, the shackles of duty towards family and children. It stands for independence, they say. They pity the ones who cannot think of taking a flight alone. They look down upon the ones who do not think the same way....
