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For, in the end, it is lovely to have a host of moments to look back to and know that you had a meaningful relationship that shaped your life. Moments of impulsive decisions, following your heart or acting on your true feelings are what make life memorable. Read below the account of a couple to know why making new memories is important. s How To Make New Memories It was that time in the afternoon when your office desk seems to be the most hateful thing in the world!...

After all, you may be having a perfectly wonderful marriage where your partner is happy with you, takes care of you, buys you gifts, takes you out and makes you feel special. Or you may be in that great job where you spend hours in the office, happily trekking to work even on weekends, safe and secure in the knowledge that putting in the extra effort is just the price you pay for a stable, secure, fulfilling life....

If that question drove you here to us, you’re probably confused by the brave face he’s putting up. You’re probably upset that when you walked away, he made no effort to stop you or keep you there. Maybe, you’re wondering, “He let me walk away so easily” or “I walked away and he let me go”. Was he indifferent or just angry? His vague social media stories aren’t of much help and his friends never really know what’s up, so asking them is useless as well....

I am Urmi Chowdhuri and this is my story. Two decades ago, I had gotten attracted to this personable young man. We fell in love while working at a premium 5-star hotel. We were good friends who got married; it was a dream! The cracks, though, began appearing quite early. As young parents, we were busy balancing work and life and many a strife was brushed under the carpet. We moved wherever his work took us – Calcutta, Bangalore, Hyderabad, the Philippines....

Besides, the length of the relationship and the depth of the connection you shared also determine how soon or late you’ll be ready to date again. Some people can get into a new relationship within 24 hours of a breakup, while some struggle to forget and move on after years. Is dating immediately after a breakup ever a good idea? How long should you wait after a breakup to date again?...

While it’s good to believe and love passionately, know that you can fall in love, desperately and passionately, more than once. And that is not necessarily a bad thing. Every chapter has its fair share of happy and sad moments, along with lessons to learn and experiences to remember. Also, it might be unnecessary pressure on your heart and soul to believe that you have to completely forget about someone to be able to move on....

Now, you get an urge to make him like you back. Perhaps you need a little bit of help with planning that out? That’s what I thought. Well, you don’t need an exact plan to get a man to like you. In fact, I believe you should have a second and think if the whole idea to ‘make’ him do something is a natural and long-lasting thing. You’ll attract him once you’re not desperate for his attention, his ‘approval’ of your awesome looks and personality....

How To Get In The Mood For My Husband? This question has been on my mind for some time because I have been really unable to turn myself on. I do not want to have mercy sex, in which you just go through the motions because you know your partner wants it and you just put your body up for pleasure even if you are not into it. My husband and I used to have a fulfilling sex life that did ebb after our two children were born and after the pressures of work and family came our way, but I want to get back there....

Gradually, the one-off instances become too frequent. And the signs of disrespect from a man – from your man – begin to pile up. You may begin to realize that you have no respect in the relationship. That’s when you start to think that the signs of disrespect in your relationship were always there, just you chose to ignore them. We receive many queries on disrespectful relationships and in many cases, eventually, the partner feeling slighted ends up thinking about ending the relationship and some even go through with their decision....

It’s not always easy to understand if someone values us. Sometimes people send mixed signals, and that often generates confusion. One day you feel important to them, and the next day you have doubts, many doubts. However, the fact that we perceive mixed signals from someone doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t value us. They might be having a bad day, or a bad week. It’s also true that sometimes mixed signals mean we’re not as important as we hoped to that person....

For today’s email, WhatsApp, and DM generation, writing a love letter and the importance of this gesture in the world of old-school romance are alien concepts. Writing a love letter to your beloved is a beautiful gesture that can make them feel cherished and adored. Love letters are a testament to your romance and can be preserved for decades. Sure, it is easier to send a text message these days....

My job included going through appraisals, sometimes a number of them at the same time. Though it was not much, I was new and it was too big a weight on my shoulder. It took me hours to get through one, sometimes even a day. I fell in love with my married boss The group of people I was put to work with, helped me get into the flow of things....

That’s not to say that all long-distance relationships are doomed to fail. But that it takes greater effort and commitment to keep one going. There will inevitably always be some moments in your day when you will catch yourself saying, “I miss my long-distance partner.” 10 Moments When You Miss Your Long-Distance Partner Instead of dressing up for romantic dates, you put your nice clothes on for the weekend Skype dates....

Names have been changed to protect identities I had no second thoughts – I knew I wanted to marry Anika and went on to convince my family. She took a while with her folks though, as they had way too many reservations. I’d say the distance wasn’t helping either – we were on site in Sydney while the families were in Kolkata. They knew we were colleagues but they weren’t privy to the fact that we had been living together for more than a year now....

Let’s be practical. In today’s day and age, it would be unrealistic to expect that you won’t be meeting or interacting with people from the opposite sex. At the workplace, the club, in social setups, and of course, in the online world, you are constantly in touch with people from myriad worlds. There is nothing wrong in maintaining platonic friendships when married as long as they don’t breach certain boundaries that leave your spouse feeling insecure....

Kamadeva The God Of pleasure He lords over and is the personification of love, lust and sensuality. Much like the western Eros or Cupid, he signifies the attraction between two people. Visually, he is represented as a handsome young man with a parrot as his vahana (vehicle), a sugarcane bow with bees forming the bowstring and flower-tipped arrows. He is often accompanied by his wife, Rati, who is the Goddess of carnal desire, lust, passion and sexual pleasure....

My name is Rinki. Here is my story. My life was all good. It was not only because of my marriage to a wonderful husband, Dheer or a lovely son Pranjal, but people always said that I’m a lucky girl. Good parents, nice in-laws, successful husband, comfortable living, nothing ever felt missing in my life. But then things changed. When I first met Rian and found myself drawn towards him, I kept asking myself, why am I getting so greedy?...

This is a situation a lot of us have been through and thankfully survived. The question haunts your dreams and it doesn’t let you sleep: Is he going to break up with me? If he’s thinking of breaking up with you, then why won’t he just break up with you? Sometimes it’s more complicated than that… Sometimes people think that silence and wrong behavior is an easier way out of a relationship than a straightforward “I can’t do this anymore....

This is why, to establish a healthy relationship and to sustain it, one must learn how to control jealous feelings so as to not let a perfectly good relationship go to waste. Healing jealousy and insecurity come later, what comes first is understanding that jealousy is part and parcel of the relationship process. Sometimes, even a sly look in the direction of someone who’s eyeing you can be enough to tick your partner off....

An excerpt My divorce was a rejection even if I was the one who had initiated it. It was almost like being put in a garbage bag and thrown out of someone’s life. To climb out of this long, dark sack of rot and tell myself that I was worthy, still worthy, was a Herculean effort. Especially now, when Hercules’s muscles were sagging. The divorce filled me with the most unimaginable emotional bullshit possible....