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Human sexuality is no longer bound by rigid social constraints and binaries. Sexual and/or romantic attraction, too, has become far more fluid. Perhaps it always was, but greater openness toward the subject was required so people could freely express what they were feeling. And it happens to a lot of people. You could have been attracted to men for most of your life and may suddenly experience female-to-female attraction. Maybe it’s the new girl who’s joined your office and smiles at you when you walk in with your coffee....

I think my ex still loves me but won’t admit it. Is this you? Do you harbor such feelings for them too or are you just confused by the way they’ve been interacting with you lately? Whatever the reason may be, these subtle signs will help you understand the possible motives behind their words and actions. Through these signs your ex still loves you but is scared, you will be better able to figure out the next course of action....

What if one person develops feelings for the other and wants more than just no-strings-attached hook-ups? What if you stop feeling it with your friend with benefits and want out? What if they find someone and want to move on? That’s why laying some ground rules is a must for friends who’re inclined to get intimate without being in a relationship. It prevents a fun, casual thing from turning into a complicated mess....

To find out exactly how to reassure your girlfriend that you love her, we reached out to Ridhi Golechha, who is a food psychologist and specializes in counseling for loveless marriages, breakups and other relationship issues. She says, “First and foremost, validation is very important. We thrive on it. “There are many things we deal with on a daily basis and validation helps us keep going. You can start with something as basic as “you are loved”, “you are wanted” or “you are needed”....

The subject of moving in together reminds me of a song by Charlie Rich, “And when we get behind closed doors, then she lets her hair hang down, and she makes me glad that I’m a man, Oh, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors…” Granted, living with your partner adds a whole new dimension of intimacy to your relationship. However, it’s not a decision that should be made lightly or prematurely....

The pain of losing someone you love and cherish deeply is augmented manifold when you know that it was your actions that drove you apart. Mistakes in a relationship happen from both sides. But if you have crossed a line with yours, it can be a lot harder to undo that damage. For instance, if you cheated on your partner, the guilt can trigger the “I ruined my relationship” realization, coupled with a sinking feeling, even before your partner comes to know of the transgression....

Not defining the relationship is not much of a great sign. Those positive expectations and the hopes start getting shaky once we spot those little not-so-great signs. Do you find yourself having this gut feeling that he is not committed? Do you feel like you are being used? You’re left feeling confused, perhaps blaming yourself for something you might’ve done. Is he using you, truly? Let’s go together through 22 signs that he is using you:...

What mature women want in a relationship is not very different from what any mature person would want from their romantic partner. Since their outlook toward life is alike, and the importance they give to core values hits a match, both men and women who are mature, more or less, find similar things attractive in a potential partner and a relationship. Let us first take a look at the signs of a mature woman....

The first year of being married is not a piece of cake. On some days it might feel like one, while on other days you will want to burn your house down. The first-year of marriage is at the highest risk of divorce and the risk may extend to the second year. You could actually end up fighting all the time in your first year of marriage and even feel that you made the greatest mistake by getting married in the first place....

Or it could simply be a case of life getting in the way. As we become so engrossed in our lives trying to navigate the many stressors and challenges, we tend to take those who were there for us every step of the way for granted. It’s time you make them feel loved. The answer to how to show someone you care about them doesn’t have to be grand or complicated....

You need to realize that your co-workers are not really your family members who will put up with those weird gifts every year and won’t mind the fact that you messed up their gifts, yet again. You shouldn’t be surprised then if they don’t hold the elevator door open or save the last donut in the cafeteria for you. Okay, okay, take a deep breath. Nothing as awful as that is going to happen....

Here is a list of some amazing gift items for that special woman in your life — be it your sister, your better half, or even your mom who may have graduated from a course or studied for a diploma late in life. Pick a suitable present from the list and drop by at her doorstep to wish her the best for all her upcoming adventures. 32 Best Graduation Gifts For Her Here’s a pointer to keep in mind while you explore university graduation gifts for her — it should have some utility in the new life she is about to undertake....

I have spent enough time on Tinder by now to know that it is difficult to strike up a conversation at times. In this day and age, Tinder is not just something lonely people use. The competition is tough and how things will proceed with your match all depends on the first impression you make. 37 Funny Tinder Questions Your Matches Will Love And Respond To Here’s what I think must have happened – a cutie hasn’t responded to you in a while and you just checked your DM a few seconds ago, still nothing....

In those early days when you view everything about a potential love interest with rose-tinted lenses, it is possible to lose sight of these red flags in a relationship. However, this rookie mistake can cause you a lot of pain and agony later on. It is, therefore, essential to be clear about what are some of the longterm relationship deal breakers for you and weigh a prospect vis-a-vis these yardsticks before taking the plunge....

The narcissist has hurt you so many times. Maybe they’ve gaslighted you or smeared you or completely destroyed your self-esteem. And somehow, they continue to get away with their awful behavior. Even when things seem to be getting better, you may feel like you’re walking on eggshells. It’s like they can change their mood or behavior at any given moment, and you always feel like your five steps behind them....

Whether it is just to understand him better or to find out if he is serious about you or not, you can choose from this list. Or you can use some of these trick questions to ask your boyfriend to see if he’s cheating on you. These questions will even save you from delaying an inevitable breakup. But before that, let’s also look at the questions you should NOT ask your boyfriend....

1. Be the maroon goddess It’s vintage, it’s gorgeous and perfect lingerie for your bridal trousseau. Put a robe on and let the game begin! 2. Come, let’s play! Feeling a little hot down there? Slip into this transparent two-piece and watch your husband’s jaw come unhinged. 3. Delicate like a plum Not going out on a Saturday doesn’t mean you have to be in your pyjamas. Wear this fine satin nightdress with heels and get kinky with him....

There are also people who from the outside look particularly confident — they take care of their appearance, dress elegant, speak and walk confidently — while the reality is they have a deep lack of self-esteem. Their insecurity is more difficult to spot, because in order to see it, you have to look closer at them and how they behave. In this article we will talk about some signs of insecurity that are particularly common among people who seem confident but tend to have low self-esteem....

Without emotional maturity, it’s nearly impossible to build a healthy bond with someone. This is why immature people struggle to have stable relationships. But first, what does emotional maturity look like? According to Monique Judge, editor of The Root, “Emotional maturity is the ability to handle situations without escalating them. Instead of seeking to blame someone else for their problems or behaviors, emotionally mature people seek to fix the problem or behavior....

For instance, Richard wanted a child while Jenny felt she was not ready to handle a career disruption at the moment. It did not help that she was constantly told by her partner that her biological clock was ticking! That just made her fume all the more. How could they learn to just stop fighting in a relationship? To address this issue we have inputs from two experts – Kashish Vyas, counselor and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner, and Riddhi Doshi Patel, child psychologist and founder-director of Rhhyns Academy in Mumbai....